solowing:

Confession time: I’m extremely good at removing my emotions from my actions, because I know how reactionary I can get if I let them interfere. When I think there’s about to be a fight, bam, game face is on, zero emotion. And that seems to agitate people because they’re used to arguing with emotional people, and they take not being emotional as a sort of insult. It’s not, far from it. I just don’t want to lose myself to anger or anything so I remove all emotion from the equation to ensure that I act civil. Idk, maybe it’s the wrong thing to do. But it helps.